feat: upgrade react-select and make multi-select sortable (#9628)

* feat: upgrade react-select v1.3.0 to v3.1.0

Upgrade `react-select`, replace `react-virtualized-select` with a custom
solution implemented with `react-window`.

Future plans include deprecate `react-virtualized` used in other places, too.

Migrate all react-select related components to `src/Components/Select`.

* Fix new list view

* Fix tests

* Address PR comments

* Fix a flacky Cypress test

* Adjust styles for Select in CRUD ListView

* Fix loadOptions for owners select in chart PropertiesModal

TODO: add typing support for AsyncSelect props.

* Address PR comments; allow isMulti in SelectControl, too

* Clean up NaN in table filter values

* Fix flacky test

superset-frontend/cypress-base/cypress/integration/explore/visualizations/box_plot.js

@@ -63,7 +63,6 @@ export default () =>
             comparator: 'South Asia',
             clause: 'WHERE',
             sqlExpression: null,
-            fromFormData: true,
             filterOptionName: 'filter_8aqxcf5co1a_x7lm2d1fq0l',
           },
         ],