feat: upgrade react-select and make multi-select sortable (#9628)

* feat: upgrade react-select v1.3.0 to v3.1.0

Upgrade `react-select`, replace `react-virtualized-select` with a custom
solution implemented with `react-window`.

Future plans include deprecate `react-virtualized` used in other places, too.

Migrate all react-select related components to `src/Components/Select`.

* Fix new list view

* Fix tests

* Address PR comments

* Fix a flacky Cypress test

* Adjust styles for Select in CRUD ListView

* Fix loadOptions for owners select in chart PropertiesModal

TODO: add typing support for AsyncSelect props.

* Address PR comments; allow isMulti in SelectControl, too

* Clean up NaN in table filter values

* Fix flacky test

superset-frontend/cypress-base/cypress/integration/explore/visualizations/shared.helper.js

@@ -59,7 +59,6 @@ export const NUM_METRIC = {
   aggregate: 'SUM',
   sqlExpression: null,
   hasCustomLabel: false,
-  fromFormData: false,
   label: 'Sum(num)',
   optionName: 'metric_1de0s4viy5d_ly7y8k6ghvk',
 };
@@ -71,6 +70,5 @@ export const SIMPLE_FILTER = {
   comparator: ['Aaron', 'Amy', 'Andrea'],
   clause: 'WHERE',
   sqlExpression: null,
-  fromFormData: true,
   filterOptionName: 'filter_4y6teao56zs_ebjsvwy48c',
 };