feat: upgrade react-select and make multi-select sortable (#9628)

* feat: upgrade react-select v1.3.0 to v3.1.0

Upgrade `react-select`, replace `react-virtualized-select` with a custom
solution implemented with `react-window`.

Future plans include deprecate `react-virtualized` used in other places, too.

Migrate all react-select related components to `src/Components/Select`.

* Fix new list view

* Fix tests

* Address PR comments

* Fix a flacky Cypress test

* Adjust styles for Select in CRUD ListView

* Fix loadOptions for owners select in chart PropertiesModal

TODO: add typing support for AsyncSelect props.

* Address PR comments; allow isMulti in SelectControl, too

* Clean up NaN in table filter values

* Fix flacky test

superset-frontend/spec/javascripts/explore/components/AdhocMetricOption_spec.jsx

@@ -55,4 +55,11 @@ describe('AdhocMetricOption', () => {
     expect(wrapper.find(OverlayTrigger)).toHaveLength(1);
     expect(wrapper.find(Label)).toHaveLength(1);
   });
+
+  it('overlay should open if metric is new', () => {
+    const { wrapper } = setup({
+      adhocMetric: sumValueAdhocMetric.duplicateWith({ isNew: true }),
+    });
+    expect(wrapper.find(OverlayTrigger).props().defaultOverlayShown).toBe(true);
+  });
 });